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Hand-Washing 101

I’m pretty sure that my coworkers must think that I’ve gone a bit overboard on cleanliness: Over the last month, I’ve found two different tips for washing your hands that have become a big part of my daily life.

Before a few weeks ago, I can’t really say that I thought about hand-washing one way or another. It was just something you did when your hands get dirty. But for some reason, the universe has decided that either I need to know how to wash my hands better or I need to tell others how to do it better. I’m not really one to ignore what fate throws my way, so here we go:

On March 4, a reader left a comment on our “The Truth About Antibacterial Soap” saying that people wouldn’t need so many antibacterial products if we just washed our hands thoroughly. She said she had heard that a good rule of thumb is to sing the alphabet song (you know: “Now I know my ABCs . . .”). By the time you’ve finished the song, your hands should be clean. At the time I didn’t really think anything of it. It was an interesting tip and that was it. 

Until the next time I washed my hands.

It wasn’t until I was halfway through scrubbing that I realized that I was singing the ABC song as I stood at the sink (in my head, thankfully). Okay, I have nothing against clean hands, but I’m pretty sure that unless you’re under the age of 4 (or 2 or 3?), having the alphabet song running through your head several times a day can get annoying.

But I couldn’t help it — I continued to sing it every time I washed my hands. For days. In fact, it wasn’t until I was on vacation last week that the song left my head. Until I was telling my next story to my coworker and she reminded me of this story. And now the song is back in my head every time I wash my hands (thanks a lot, Courtney). 

Fast forward to last Sunday, where I’m spending a lazy day on the couch watching TED talks on Netflix, and I come across one titled “How to Use One Paper Towel.” I wouldn’t necessarily call myself a paper towel expert, but I figure that I have the basic principles down pretty well. But the video is less than five minutes long, so I figure, why not?

In the presentation, Joe Smith, a former district attorney in Oregon, shares how many pounds of paper towels are used each year (13 billion) and how many pounds we could save (571,230) if people consciously reduced the number of paper towels they use every day. And, really, think about how many times you’ve grabbed two, three, maybe even four paper towels and still haven’t gotten your hands completely dry.

So Smith teaches a technique (I’ll let Smith show you himself below, but let’s just say that it involves a “shake” and “fold” process) where you can get your hands completely dry with just one paper towel. Hmm. I think you can probably see where this story is heading.

Monday morning, I find myself in front of a sink with clean, wet hands and a paper towel, and it’s time to put the rubber to the road. I try Smith’s technique, and, as promised, my hand are the driest they’ve ever been using a paper towel.

I’m not sure why, but this is a game-changer for me — I’m thoroughly obsessed! I have this constant urge to go wash (and dry) my hands even when they already clean. But I don’t, because that would defeat Smith’s purpose for teaching us how to use a paper towel in the first place. And I have work to get done. But I assure you, at the risk of oversharing, going to the bathroom is now one of my favorite things to do during the day.

And should you ever meet me coming out of a restroom and I offer to shake your hand, don’t be afraid — they’re very clean and very dry.

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My Vision (Board) for the Future

I’ve been meaning to make a vision board for years. Pilar’s been on me since last fall to put one together. And I have this deep-seated, although unfounded, belief that big things are going to happen for (or maybe, to) me in 2013. There’s just one problem.

I hate arts and crafts.

I’ve tried, I swear I have. More than once I’ve gathered a pile of old magazine, scissors, poster board and glue sticks, and spread out on the living room floor, ready to set my destiny. I’ve even gotten as far as ripping a few pages out of the magazines. But eventually, I get distracted by my dog or frustrated because I’m not cutting perfectly straight lines, and I move on to something else. Being crafty is not my thing (unless it’s possibly in a sneaky way) and not even a strong desire to set my life goals can overcome that.

Playing with technology, on the other hand, is a completely different story.

Last week, my coworker, Courtney, was sharing her experience about a vision board app that she had recently tried on her iPhone. She prompted me to remember that several years ago I had come across some vision-board software on Oprah.com. I knew that I had played around with it for a while and I had saved at least the start of a board, but I wasn’t even sure that the program still existed.

The next day I decided to check the site out and there it was (now, with more pictures added, above), my unfinished board from years gone by. Not surprisingly, the few images that were there still accurately reflected what I’m looking for out of life — I’m nothing if not consistent.

The program is pretty easy to use. You can find it at www.oprah.com/packages/o-dream-board.html, along with a slew of articles on how to determine your passions, set your goals and create your vision board. I believe that you can create a board right away, but you will have to sign up for an account in the Oprah community to be able to save it.

After you create a new board, you can add the images and words that best represent your goals. There is a pretty large selection of pictures and words on the site that you can use, and the program lets you write out other words and phrases of your choosing. You can also upload your own pictures from your computer.

Once you’ve finished, you can print the board on paper, or save it to your computer as a jpeg file. Et voila — your own vision board! I’ve printed out several copies that I’ve put up in my cubicle at work and several places in my house, and I’ve made the board the wallpaper for both my personal and work computers.

I still want to do some more work on the board over time. And, this is only the first step in a long list toward setting and achieving my goals. Still, it was a fun way to spend a winter weekend.

Do you have a vision board? I’m hoping to put together a slideshow of Experience Life team members’ boards, and if you’d like to send me a picture of yours (email me at jstone2@experiencelife.com), I’d love to add it to the mix. And, if you’re like me and you have never gotten around to making one for yourself, check out the program at Oprah.com and see if it’s for you.

Happy visioning!

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Finding My Chi

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If you’ve read recent posts on this blog, you know that most of the Experience Life team participated in the Commitment Day 5K race here in Minneapolis. It’s been fun to hear everyone’s individual take on the race because, although we walked or ran the same route (in the same – 5-degree weather), it seems that each one of us had our own unique experience.

Personally, I had just barely enough energy after the race to make my way home, flop on the couch and take a two-hour nap. When I woke up, my lower limbs were stiff, my body felt like it weighed 1,000 pounds and my brain was so foggy, I couldn’t have carried on a semi-intelligent conversation. My only coherent thought was, I hope I never have to do another 5K — everAnd that was just from walking. Running has never been my thing.

This week I had the pleasure of interviewing Danny Dreyer, creator of ChiRunning and ChiWalking, for the Contributors’ Page that I write for the magazine, and he told me that with his system, you can actually have more energy after a run than before. “In fact,” he said, “I ran 17 miles yesterday, and I had to come home and find things to do to wind down.”

Hmm.

We talked more, and Dreyer explained in more detail his blending of running (or walking) with elements of Tai Chi to create the flow of “chi” (or energy) throughout the body. I was (and still am) intrigued — with a healthy dose of skepticism. (I kept saying things like, “In theory, that is so cool!” and Dreyer would just laugh at me.)

But, I admit it: I’m very fascinated. Run a few miles, and have even more energy afterward — can you imagine it? Needless to say, I’m off to start reading ChiRunning, and once the snow and ice melt, I’m going to see if I can start putting this “theory” into practice. Just think of all of the things I’ll be able to do with my extra energy!

Who knows? Maybe I’ll even enter another 5K this summer.

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What’s Your (Sleep) Number?

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This summer I dogsat for my best friend, Shelby. This is something I’ve done often, and taking care of her two Jack Russell terriers has a routine: Shelby puts new sheets on her bed, and at night, Mackey and Cliffy, as well as my beagle, Shiloh, and I snuggle up to go to sleep. This last time was different, though. It’s been a while since I’d stayed overnight, and this time, for the first time (I believe) I was sleeping on their Sleep Number bed.

I’ve never been a morning person. When I was a teenager, my mother and I lived by an unspoken code: She didn’t speak to me before 10 a.m., and I didn’t hurl obscenities in response. Waking up is painful for me — sometimes physically — and it can sometimes take up to an hour for me to go from being fully alert and coherent. And, I have no doubt that things had gotten worse because I was a couple of years overdue on buying a new mattress.

But this particular morning in June was different: I woke up at 6:30 a.m. without the aid of an alarm. After looking at the clock, my first thought was, Thank God, I can go back to sleep for another hour. But after closing my eyes again, I realized that I was awake, alert and ready to start the day. So I did.

Over the next few weeks, I joked with people about how I had obviously found my perfect “sleep number,” and I needed to get a bed of my own. Weirdly, I discovered that a lot of people I know have Sleep Number beds, and they all assured me that sleeping on one could have the noticeable effects that I experienced. And, really, it makes sense: The right environment (in this case, bed) helps you sleep better, and sleeping better will leave you more refreshed in the morning.

After that I was obsessed. I had to figure out when I would have several hundred dollars just lying around with nowhere to go (ha!), but I promised myself that I would be sleeping better by the first of the year, one way or another. After months of talking about it, I finally ordered the bed, and it was delivered last week.

And how is it? Well, this new mattress isn’t as giving as my old, plush pillow-top with the individually wrapped coils, but one the other hand, lower-back pain from sleeping in an arched position that I had tolerated for months was gone after the first night. I no longer feel like I can’t open my eyes fully until my first cup of coffee, and I feel more focused throughout the day. So, yeah, I’d say my new bed is pretty awesome.

Although I’m the latest fangirl of the Sleep Number family, I’m not suggesting that everyone go get one (though, if you do, tell them I sent you so I can get a discount on pillows). But, I would encourage all of you to take a moment to consider how powerful a good, full night’s sleep can be: It increases mental acuity, energy and mood, reduces stress and risk of illness, and can even help you lose weight. Heck, what can’t sleep do?

So, I say, go and do whatever you can to get good sleep on a regular basis, whether it’s a new bed or pillows, light-blocking curtains or even just getting to bed at an earlier hour. And sleep well!

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Brené Brown on Being Vulnerable

As Heidi mentioned briefly in her last post, I’m in the middle of a Brené Brown reading frenzy. To be honest, it’s more of an obsession with her and her writing. As soon as I finish reading The Gifts of Imperfection for the second time, I’m off to read her first book,  I Thought it Was Just Me (but it Wasn’t)and then her new book, Daring Greatly. And I’m really excited to see her speak at the University of Minnesota next month, too. (I promise not to be too stalker-ish.)

In the meantime, last week I came across this interview with Brown and Jonathan Fields, author of Uncertainty. This isn’t the first time that Brown has shared her thoughts about vulnerability on video — her 2010 TED Talk was the first time I learned of her work. Oddly, although I was impressed with her talk, it didn’t make a lasting impression. Apparently that’s changed.

Anyway, I really enjoyed this video, and I hope you do, too.

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An Ambassador Weekend

In case you’re not familiar with our community ambassador program, last summer we chose six people from our social media networks to help promote the magazine and spread the healthy-living word. In truth, these people (and many others) were already doing these things; we just wanted a way to affiliate their sharing with the magazine and hopefully partner with them in different ways in the future.

I was lucky enough to be on the committee that chose these ambassadors for our pilot program and have worked with them in different ways over the last six months, including sending advance copies of the magazine for preview, video chats, sponsoring subscription giveaways and more.

These two men and four women are an amazing group of people doing some really big things in their respective areas. And, while it’s been a pleasure to meet these people through email, phone and Skype conversations, you have to admit that still, in this day and age, nothing beats a face-to-face encounter.

I have already had the opportunity to meet two of our ambassadors who have Minnesota connections in person: Jill Grunewald lives right here in the Twin Cities and has stopped by the office, and Sarah Kay Hoffman, who lives in California but is originally from Minnesota, has met several of us for coffee when in town visiting in family.

Then, this weekend I had the pleasure of meeting two more of these fantastic people — it was pure coincidence that they were both in town on the same weekend.

First, Melissa Joulwan of The Clothes Make the Girl (@melicious11) stopped by the office with her husband, David, on Friday afternoon to say hi. The two had been in Brainerd, Minn., to check out the first traditional printing of Melissa’s Paleo Cookbook, Well Fed (look for an upcoming giveaway of her book on our site). Once freelance editor, Dave Schimke, found out they live in Austin, Tex., a huge discussion on world-famous BBQ joints in that part of the country ensued, and fun (not to mention hunger pains) was had by all!

Then, on Friday, a few hours before Melissa showed up at the office, I got an email from Chris Dempsey (@dempseypost) saying that he would be flying in to Minneapolis on Saturday. Chris is a sports writer with the Denver Post and was following the Denver Nuggets, who were playing the Timberwolves Sunday afternoon.

Unfortunately, our office doesn’t have weekend hours, so I wasn’t able to introduce him around to the team, but we did meet for dinner on Sunday night (after the Timberwolves had pummeled the Nuggets!) and had a great meal and conversation.

Needless to say, put two journalists at a table together, and the evening consists of questions being hurled back and forth at near-lightening speeds. I found out some really interesting things about what Chris’s job entails: By the time March has ended, Chris will have traveled 22 days out the month, which sounds both exciting and exhausting! And, did you know that sports writers actually writer their entire stories right there at the game? It just never occurred to me.

Anyway, I had a blast meeting Melissa and Chris, and hope that I get a chance to hang out with them again soon. And, for our other two ambassadors, Michael and Lauren, take note: Now it’s your turn to hit the Land of 10,000 Lakes!

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Waterlogged

Jun10_DrinkHealth1.jpgLast week, after the official launch of the magazine’s new healthy-living app, I decided to use the “101 Ways to Be Healthy” to help me improve my own life. Because the last few weeks have been challenging for me for several reasons, I decided that, rather than using the “Surprise Me!” option, I would consciously choose one of the 101 Ways that would be easy for me to integrate into my life. With that in mind, I figured, what could be easier than #40: Drink a lot of H20?

Or so I thought. The first thing I did was read “How to Hydrate,” from our December 2007 issue, to find out exactly how much was “a lot of water.” The article states that the Institute of Medicine in Washington, D.C., recommends at least 91 ounces a day for women and 125 ounces for men. It sure seemed like a lot, almost 50 percent more than the typical “eight 8-ounce glasses a day” that everybody seems to know. But if an organization as official-sounding as the Institute of Medicine is recommending it, who am I to second-guess? (Note: one of our editors checked their Web site a few weeks ago and, while the original article is four years old, the Institute still stands by those recommendations.)

I’m into my second week, and I have to admit that it’s been difficult. The most that I drank during the first week was 44 ounces. That was on the first day, and the numbers decreased every day from there. And I even like water! It’s really all I drink, and I carry a water bottle with me wherever I go. But I realized that I only reach for that bottle when I feel thirsty, and at that point I’m probably already pretty dehydrated, according to what I’ve been reading. I knew that I would have to make more a conscious effort to drink regularly throughout the day, rather than relying of physical clues.

So, I decided first thing Monday morning to give myself a hydration head start: I drank 24 ounces of water right after I woke up. Within my first hour at work, I had drunk probably another 12 ounces. I was feeling pretty good about my progress so far and continued that way throughout the day. But even by late morning, I was seeing drawbacks from such a drastic spike in my water intake: by 11:15, I had already used the bathroom three times (I joked with my coworkers that I might be more productive if I moved my desk in there), I swear I felt like I had water in my ears, and not only was I not hungry, my stomach was so full that I even felt a little sick. I did nothing but snack all day long.

But I was determined to finish the day out meeting my goal, and I did. By that evening I had reached 91 ounces and, weirdly enough, later that night I felt thirsty and probably drank another six ounces. But yesterday I was practically aquaphobic — I’d be surprised if I drank even eight ounces for the day.

I think I’ve taken away two things from this first revolutionary attempt to be healthy: Lasting change, like many things, is often a lot easier and more manageable in small chunks. For somebody who drinks and average of 24-30 ounces of water a day, 44 ounces last week was a substantial improvement. I need to take the time to celebrate that success instead of pushing myself to double that amount and turn myself off water altogether.

Also, I need to remember to listen to my body more. I tend to take recommended amounts and measurements very literally, never accounting for individual factors. From what I understand, that’s why I’ll never be a fabulous cook, but I could be an amazing baker if I wanted. I find it hard to believe that anything that makes you feel sick is good. Apparently, 91 ounces of water was too much for me, at least at this point. As I increase the amount of water I drink gradually, I need to be cognizant of that tipping point where I go from feeling healthier to feeling nauseated. And if that amount is 91 ounces or more, so be it. But if it’s less, I need to trust that my body is serving me correctly.

If you’ve downloaded the app and have been (or are planning to) use it to make healthy changes, I would love to hear how it’s working for you!

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Confessions of a Sugar Addict

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Hi. My name is Jocelyn and I’m an addict. I’m not saying I have a sweet tooth — this goes way beyond that. I have made more than one self-proclaimed “sweet tooth” cringe at the amount of sugar I put in my coffee, I have put sugar on my Raisin Bran (yes, I realize that the raisins are what are supposed to make the cereal sweet), and on occasion I have been known to shower my eggs in maple syrup (my mother almost disowned me for that one). And that doesn’t even count all the bread, bagels and pastries that I used to eat. I had never even entertained the thought of a world without sugar — primarily white, refined sugar. Until I came to work for Experience Life.

For quite some time, nutritionists, medical experts and publications (including this one) have been talking about the dangers of sugar consumption, everything from inflammation to diabetes to heart disease and more. I would like to say that I quit the sweet stuff the day I started at the magazine, but I didn’t. The closest I got was no type of sugar or sweetener during the first four weeks of my UltraMetabolism diet last winter. But during the second month, the first things I reintroduced were natural sweeteners: honey, maple syrup and agave nectar. The second thing I reintroduced was bread.

There’s been more talk over the last year or so about how sugar addiction is biologically similar to drug or alcohol addiction. To name a couple of articles, Mark Hyman, MD, talks on his Web site how some people need more stimulation to activate pleasure receptors, and Dr. Frank Lipman cites a 2007 study where rats chose sugar water over water laced with cocaine. While I find that interesting, and it’s somewhat comforting to know that my cravings might be more than just a severe lack of willpower, knowing that doesn’t really solve anything. I mean, I’m not allowed to drive drunk just because I’m an alcoholic, right?

However, I still can’t imagine living in an unsweetened world. So, since the elimination diet last January, I’ve tried to make some changes that, while not all of them are the healthiest choices, they’re a lot better than I was doing a year ago:

  1. I rarely keep binge-worthy foods in the house. (Recently, I bought a package of four apple fritters and they were gone in a day and a half. That won’t be happening again anytime soon.) Luckily, I’m pretty lazy: I’d rather sit at home craving something than get up and go to the store to satisfy that craving.
  2. I’ve mostly much stopped using refined sugar. At home, I use natural sweeteners for my coffee, and occasionally when I’m out I’ll use a little raw sugar.
  3. I’ve cut about 80 percent of the processed foods I used to eat out of my diet.
  4. When a sugar craving hits, I always start with something natural. I try to keep at least one type of fresh fruit (grapes and apples are a couple of my faves) around and I usually have raisins on hand in case I’m out of everything else.
  5. When I do slip (see #1), as soon as I can (usually once the sick feeling goes away) I forgive myself, learn what I can from the experience, and move on.

If you’re trying to combat your own sugar-consumption issues, we ran “Sugar Shock” in our May 2011 issue. It has tips on how to kick the habit as well as how to know how much sugar may be hidden in the foods you eat.

As for me? I’ve cut as much sugar from my diet as I can (for now) and still keep life bearable. And I just keep telling myself: One day at a time, Jocelyn; one day at a time.

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Meet the Team

Contributors-page2.jpgWe have a new page debuting in our September issue (in homes and on newsstands very soon!) that I’m really excited about: the Contributors Page.

Now, you might think that I’m only excited because I’m working on the page (yes, that’s my name in bold at the very bottom) and I won’t deny that my new assignment has been a blast, but there’s more to it than that.

There are a lot of smart and talented people that help make Experience Life what it is. And while you can visit the Our Team page to get the skinny on the editorial staff, there hasn’t really been a place to showcase all the writers, photographers, stylists and illustrators that do their part. Now there is: each issue we’ll introduce you to four of the contributors whose work is featured.

It’s been great fun putting faces to the names I come across every time I read an issue of the magazine, and they do some amazing things, both during and after work. I only hope that I do them justice in the amount of space that I have to work with.

I hope you enjoy it!

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Between a Rock Wall and a Hard Place

Jocelyn first climb.jpgAfter almost a month of the rain denying me the experience of my first outdoor climb, our group finally got out this past Saturday. It was a sparkly, sunny day, mid-80s, not a chance of rain. We drove with the top down on the car and basked in the beauty that is a Minnesota summer day. After the exhilarating hike up to the bluff, my first climb was. . . anticlimactic.

After all the build-up and talk of how fun this was going to be, a real outdoor climb was drastically different than I had anticipated. You mean the holds really aren’t conveniently marked in red and white so that I can plot where I’m going before I even get started? And what about those big handles that are so easy to grasp onto — where’d they go? Needless to say, not only did I not make it to the top of any of my climbs, I didn’t even get close.

Although I enjoyed the day, I have to admit that I was pretty sullen about my performance. My friends tried to console me with the reminder that this was my first time out. To which it took every ounce of restraint I had (and a couple of ounces that I didn’t) to stop myself from saying, “But it’s (my climbing partner) Ryan’s first time, too, and he’s doing really well.” That would have been just downright whiny. Not to mention that Ryan (the triathloner) is younger, stronger and healthier than I am.

They say that each new experience is a learning opportunity, and I definitely took away something from the outing this weekend: Finally seeing what real, natural rock is like has given me an idea of holds and techniques that I want to practice, ones that I never would have guessed before being out there.

But I’ve also learned that my determination has really grown over the years. There used to be a time that if I didn’t excel at something the first time I did it, there wouldn’t be a second time, and I’ve probably missed out on some really fun experiences. Today, I’m saying that not only will there be another climbing adventure, but when it comes I’ll be ready to kick some butt on that bluff!

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