Pumping Irony

Craig Cox, EL’s managing editor and resident geezer, explores the joys and challenges of aging well.

Monthly Archives: April 2012

Experience Life Magazine

Maintain Your Brain

Every night before she heads to bed, My Lovely Wife brews a cup of tea, settles into her living room chair (usually with a cat on her lap) and attempts to solve the day’s Sudoku puzzle. It’s a ritual often recommended by experts as a way of promoting good brain health and avoiding dementia and Alzheimer’s in your later years.

Before Sudoku arrived on these shores, she cranked through the crossword each day, and before she discovered crosswords, I suspect she was staying up late solving those annoying hidden-word puzzles they used to print in our grade-school Scholastic magazines. She’s always enjoyed using her brain.

I’ll be the first to admit that MLW is brighter than I am, so it’s likely that all her late-night puzzling probably has had some impact on her mental acuity. But there’s good news for those of us whose brains aren’t always fully engaged: There’s still time to get your noggin into top shape.

According to a recent article inTrends in Cognitive Science, researchers at Umea University in Sweden suggest that what we do to promote brain health in old age has a larger impact than what we did earlier in life. “Although some memory functions do tend to decline as we get older, several elderly show well preserved functioning and this is related to a well-preserved, youth-like brain,” explains lead researcher Lars Nyberg.

The study counters the conventional approach to cognitive decline, which is to focus on understanding how the brain compensates for memory loss and the like. Nyberg and his colleagues suggest that elderly people can actually prevent such decline from occurring. “Some older adults show little or no brain changes relative to younger adults, along with intact cognitive performance, which supports the notion of brain maintenance,” he explains. “In other words, maintaining a youthful brain, rather than responding to and compensating for changes, may be the key to successful memory aging.”

And the best way to keep your brain firing on all cylinders as you age, says Nyberg, is to remain engaged in the world — socially, mentally and physically. “There is quite solid evidence that staying physically and mentally active is a way towards brain maintenance,” he says.

I’m not going to start puzzling over the Sudoku, and I never had the patience — or the vocabulary — for crossword puzzles, but it’s good to know that my daily workout, my challenging job, and even conversations with my brilliant wife might just be enough to keep my synapses firing a while longer.

Experience Life Magazine

A Healthy Awareness of Death

I recently celebrated what some might consider a rather morbid milestone: I’ve now lived longer than my father did.

I was 28 when he died of cancer. He’d lived for 60 years, seven months, and 11 days. I’m posting this at the ripe old age of 60 years, seven months and 23 days. Mission accomplished.

It’s only a number, I know, but it’s something that tends to stick in your head when a parent dies so young. You can’t help wondering about the genetics at work, the DNA you inherit that may or may not condemn you to an abbreviated lifespan. Every one of Dad’s brothers and sisters suffered from heart disease; he actually outlived a few of them. So you wonder if maybe you’ve been dealt the same hand.

But, as the Zen monk said moments after tumbling off the roof of the temple, “So far, so good.” My older brothers (68 and 65) are hanging in there, and I don’t seem to be doing too badly either. Still, I read the obits every day and am regularly reminded that folks trip over death’s doorstep when they least expect it. And I don’t think that ignoring that reality is particularly healthy — especially once you hit late middle age, or whatever it is we’re calling the 60s nowadays (70 is the new 40, I hear).

In fact, a recent meta-analysis of studies by researchers at the University of Missouri suggests that actively thinking about death is much more constructive than we’ve been led to believe. “There has been very little integrative understanding of how subtle, day-to-day, death awareness might be capable of motivating attitudes and behaviors that can minimize harm to oneself and others, and can promote well-being,” lead author Kenneth Vail said in this month’s edition of Personality and Social Psychology Review. “The dance with death can be a delicate but potentially elegant stride toward living the good life.”

Thinking about your demise, for instance, can make you more empathetic and compassionate. In one of the studies Vail and his colleagues reviewed, researchers found that people were 40 percent more likely to help someone in need when inside a cemetery than even a block away. Another study showed that “an increased awareness of death” led to more understanding and compassion between American and Iranian religious fundamentalists.

And, not surprisingly, other studies found that folks who were reminded of their mortality tended to take better care of their health. I think we all got that message after Dad died and, while each of us have taken different paths toward that goal, it’s something I’ll bet all of my siblings think about pretty much every day. I know I do.

That’s not a bad legacy left to us by a guy who left us too soon.

Experience Life Magazine

Healthy Connections

Friday night, I was downstairs watching the end of a hideous Timberwolves game and just beginning to think about turning in when I got a call from my friend M.E. He was heading over to a local watering hole with an old b-ball buddy, J.D., and wondered if I wanted to join them for a beverage.

Ordinarily, I would’ve demurred. It was late and I’m just not that sociable. But, for some reason, I pulled on a pair of shoes, grabbed my jacket and drove over to meet them. I settled into a booth alongside M.E. and spent the next hour or so in full conviviality mode: yakking away about sports and politics and who knows what else. When we parted ways, we vowed to get together again soon.

The next morning, I rose and climbed on my bike to meet a couple of other friends for breakfast at a popular diner across the river, where we spent a couple of pleasant hours chatting about everything from the history of local radio to the reconstruction of stained-glass windows.

This is all very much out of character for yours truly. My idea of a great Friday night is a nice dinner at home followed by a good book in my favorite chair, preferably with a cat curled up on my lap. It’s a sort of reclusiveness that seems to me to be fairly benign. I’m not agorophobic or anything. I do get out into society on a fairly regular basis. I’m just not very proactive when it comes to cultivating and nurturing my friendships.

And this could be a problem, according to a recent piece by Jane Brody in the New York Times. She points to research suggesting that people who have strong connections to others generally live longer than curmudgeonly hermits like myself. In one study she mentions, people lacking social ties were three times more likely to die during a nine-year period than those who spent time with family and friends. Another study, which surveyed 2,300 heart attack survivors, found that those with good social connections had a far lower risk of death than their more reclusive counterparts.

Brody, whose husband of 44 years died in 2010, admittedly faces more daunting challenges in this area than I do. My Lovely Wife is a constant source of conviviality in my life and a model “socialist” in her own right. And I have plenty of opportunities to engage with my various circles of friends. I just need to step it up a bit.

So, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got a couple of calls to make.