Just Cindy

Sometimes, the best is yet to be. That's what baby boomer and fashion model Cindy Joseph has discovered as she's grown older and wiser. Here, she shares the lessons she's learned.

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Experience Life Magazine

Putting Fun First

Cindy in White1.jpgIn the July/August “Zoom!” issue of Experience Life, I shared some of my favorite tips for simplifying my personal-care routines (read those here). But space is limited in print, and there are so many other areas of my life where I employ time- and labor-saving techniques, so I thought I’d offer a few more strategies here.

First, though, I should tell you that my mother taught me many organizational skills at a young age. She was structured and orderly in all that she did, and she practiced this efficiency to create more time to relax, telling me, “The lazy man invented the wheel.”

While I’ve used these skills well throughout my life, I’ve tweaked her philosophy: For me, efficiency and organization are the most important ingredients in making any activity quick and easy – and quick and easy translates to more time to play and have fun, which you know I’m all about!

Keeping that in mind, here are a few more ways I keep things simple:

  • When hosting a party, I set up traffic patterns so moving from room to room and getting food and drink is a breeze for my guests. It creates a natural flow and obvious spaces for certain activities to occur (e.g., eating, socializing, relaxing). It also makes being the host more enjoyable — instead of directing, it’s like being a guest at your own event!

  • I arrange my kitchen cupboards in such a way that I use the least amount of time and effort getting what I need together for a meal. I store the glasses, for instance, near the sink and fridge, and the cups near the tea kettle. I also do the dishes from right to left because I’m right handed and it feels most natural.
  • I’ve streamlined bill paying by going paperless and setting up auto payments for loans and credit cards online.
  • Whenever possible, I use Skype and video conferencing, which eliminate the need to travel for business meetings.
  • I eat lots of fruit: It’s healthy, comes in beautiful disposable packages and there’s no preparation. I throw it in my backpack and take off for the day with a delicious meal. (To note: On the go, it’s best to carry hard fruit like apples and oranges to prevent damage in transit; if you want something delicate like peaches or pears, put them in the outside pockets of your bag.)
  • I’ve found a hairstyle I love that’s low-maintenance — no rollers and blow dryers required. When I get out of the shower, I simply let my hair air dry while I get other things ready for the day or even while I’m driving to my first appointment. It saves me up to an hour of grooming time.
  • I create a place for everything I own, which helps make tidying up a relatively quick and painless chore.
  • I text and email when I’m making plans with friends or colleagues instead of calling everyone involved individually. It eliminates all the excess discussion that’s often involved in zeroing in on a time and place.  

I love finding ways to make things quick and easy. For me, it’s a fun task in itself — one that, in the end, creates time for even more fun!

What are your strategies? I’d love to hear about them!

Experience Life Magazine

The Search for Simplicity

Beach4_CJ.jpgGrowing up in a society that values appearances, accomplishments, production and success, more than character, self-awareness and consciousness, creates a complicated external life. Career, money and ambition become center stage.
There is no time to benefit from what a simpler life can bring.

The two-week American vacation is hardly enough time to relax and contemplate such things. Just as the gears start to slow down enough to do so, we are back to work. So we just keep going, juggling our busy schedules, social obligations and belongings, and becoming ever more distant from ourselves.

Why is the beach so attractive to so many? I am taking a good look at that right now. I am on an island off the coast of Florida. There is nothing here but beach, water and sky.

I sleep and eat. I sit and walk. I relate with friends. I have been here three days. I talk less, listen more. My movement, my speech and my thoughts have slowed down.

As I meditate on this subject of simplicity, I see that as my outer life becomes more complex, my inner life gets buried and lost. With a rich inner life, it’s easy to keep daily life simple.

  It’s finding the right balance. For me, less is definitely more.

Experience Life Magazine

Less Clutter, More Living

For the last three months, a friend of mine has been living in a storage room above his garage while his house is being built — he wants to be on the property so he can oversee the project.

All of the belongings he’s collected over years of travel and a career in photography are packed away in boxes stacked around the little living spot he’s created for himself. All he’s left unpacked are a bed, a table, a chair, a hot plate and some clothes.

You’d think he’d be going crazy with all of his things in boxes, but he recently told me he might not need to build the house after all. He is loving the simplicity of his life without all the “stuff.” With his space less cluttered, he has more time to just be.

Like my friend, I have seen myself and many others fill our homes and lives with stuff. We obtain so many belongings that we end up spending a huge percentage of our time managing it all — maintaining and caring for all our belongings takes time and energy. In the end, we often get rid of much of it, realizing it no longer holds the initial charm it once had.

As a result, we end up neglecting our inner lives, which have more meaning and value than objects ever can.

This realization got me thinking:

Maybe we complicate our outer lives to avoid all the clutter inside.

Maybe our deeper feelings get ignored when we occupy ourselves with all the external stuff.

Maybe our feelings are the belongings we should be cherishing and taking care of — there is a very complex and magnificent world inside there.

If that’s the case, maybe keeping our outer world simple will allow the beautiful complexities of our inner world to flourish and expand. Just a thought …