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Boost Your Happiness

We all experience happy moments. They lift us up, open our hearts and expand our energy. Maintaining this elevated state of being, well, that takes a little practice.

Research suggests that happy feelings last for about five minutes before they start to fade. The good news is that when we appreciate, share and relive our happy moments, we can extend the life of our positive emotions. Yes, happiness lies within the domain of personal power.


By intentionally choosing to direct your mind toward all that’s good in your life, your thoughts become positively charged. Positive thoughts and emotions reinforce and catalyze each other. They literally spiral up every state of your being–boosting your creativity, helping you cope with adversity and inspiring more solutions.

Make it a habit to recognize, appreciate and savor all of your positive moments. Here are three practices you can use to boost your happiness and keep things feeling fresh.

Pick one to put into action this week and enjoy basking in the glow.

  • Keep a daily log. Write about your positive experiences every day. The act of writing anchors the memory in your brain and lifts your mood. This practice also helps to strengthen your health, optimism and well-being.
  • Share your highlights. Make it a ritual to recount the day’s highlights at dinner. Sharing your positive experiences is one of the simplest ways to multiply your happiness. You’ll also develop closer and more nourishing relationships.
  • Take a picture–it lasts longer. Snap a shot of what you enjoy and appreciate. Build a highlights folder in your digital library and use your images to create a collage, slideshow or iMovie. Then share it with others for the multiplier effect.

Here’s a short cut from my latest highlights reel. I must say, seeing the faces of the people I love and reliving our experiences always makes me feel happy and grateful.


Get good at living!
Maryanne

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Five Ways to Get Fit as a Family

I don’t want my kids to grow up thinking exercise is something grown ups “have” to do. For many adults the process of starting an exercise program can seem monumental and looked upon with dread. Isn’t starting anything always the hardest part? And often, adults don’t start exercising because they sincerely want to for the love of fitness, but because of health concerns or to lose excess weight. But if a child grows up with fitness as an integral part of his or her life, there’s no need to start. As parents we can remove what is most difficult about being fit: getting started.

When my daughters were very young I became aware that fitness needed to be included in parenting. For fitness to be a family value in our home, I had to make fitness part of their world, too.

In the book, Hot (Sweaty) Mamas: Five Secrets to Life as a Fit Mom (Andrews McMeel 2011) an entire secret is devoted to mentoring. If you’re a parent, whether you’re aware of it or not, you are your children’s “fitness mentor.” When parents exercise, their children are more likely to grow up to be active adults. I think we can raise those odds when we also exercise together.  Sure I still find time to exercise on my own, but I also seek out ways for my kids to join me when possible.

To that extent I’ve become a firm believer in the family fitness triad: being a fitness mentor to my children through my own workouts, helping my children discover their own fitness passions and finding time to be active together.

Need some ideas to include kids in your workouts? Here are five ideas for family fitness: 

1)   Is your child or children taking lessons? Sign yourself up, too. Whether it’s swimming, rock climbing, martial arts, or tennis, learning or perfecting the same skills that your child is working on gives you a common fitness goal—great for conversation at the dinner table.

2)   Do you workout with a personal trainer? If you have teens or tweens, schedule a group session together every once in awhile. Request a workout that you can repeat together at home or the gym.

3)   Is there an upcoming event you can train together for as a family? If your children are too young to compete, include them in the training process by telling them about your event and your preparation. Simulate an event for them at home or in the park.

4)   If you have kids who play in the childcare center while you workout, take advantage of programs like Kids Play, which is a great introduction to “group fitness” for kids. Also, after your workout is over, take 10 or 15 minutes to shoot baskets or engage in a different kind of active play in the kids area before you leave.

5)   Share your favorite workout with your kids. They probably know how much you love Zumba or Boot Camp or (fill in the blank with your favorite activity). Create a pint-sized workout for them so they can see what it is you do when you go workout and why you like it so much. The ulterior motive, of course, is that they’ll grow up to be your favorite workout partner.

Kara Douglass Thom is a triathlete, freelance writer and mother of four. She and Laurie Kocanda are the co-authors of Hot (Sweaty) Mamas: Five Secrets to Life as a Fit Mom

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How To Eat Restriction-Free Without Flying Off the Wagon

When I tell people that having a healthy relationship with food means that you don’t restrict yourself, may of them respond by saying that if they were to tell themselves that they could eat anything that they want… they’d be afraid that they would eat doughnuts and cookies all day and get fat.

If you‚’ve read many of my articles on emotional eating, by now you might be thinking:

“So, okay, no bad food and good food lists, no depriving myself of the foods that I want, and eating my favorite comfort foods is okay? Yeah right, if I did that I’d be as big as a house!”

This is a really common fear. People think that if they let go of their tightly held grip over food and give themselves permission to eat the foods that they’ve been telling themselves for years are “naughty” then they will go off the deep end and binge on everything in sight.

I know that‚’s what I was most scared of! Back when I reached my goal weight the first time through calorie counting and a strict exercise plan, I was so afraid that if I ate anything other than my tightly regimented plan, that I’d gain all the weight back.

And guess what happened… exactly that, but only because I believed it would

When I changed my belief system about my body and food, and I learned to give myself permission to eat whatever I want in a loving and nourishing way, the tendency to go off the deep end disappeared.

When you first begin to shift your beliefs and are working on developing a healthier relationship with food, it’s important to remind yourself often that:

  1. Food can (and should) be nourishing AND satisfying.
  2. Eating is like sex, it’s supposed to be enjoyable. If it wasn’t, we wouldn’t do it and mankind would not go on, right?

So then how do you know what foods are going to be most satisfying and nourishing? You ask yourself, or rather, you ask your body.

It sounds silly, but I guarantee if you begin asking yourself (in your head, or out loud if you are really daring) something as simple as:

“What foods would be most satisfying and nourishing for me today?”

…you will be amazed at the wisdom you will receive in return.

Tune Into the Wisdom of Your Body

One time, as an experiment, I went a whole week eating a plant-based, vegan diet just to see if I would like it. At the end of the week, I remember I laid down on the bed, closed my eyes and asked myself what I wanted to eat that day and almost immediate both “egg sandwich” and “a steak” popped into my head.

I don’t really eat either that often to begin with, but it was really interesting that these were the things that my body wanted. I’m not saying these foods are best for everyone or for me all the time, it’s just what my body wanted right in that moment.

You could do the same experiment and find out that you are completely nourished and satisfied by a plant-based diet. The only way for you to know is to start tuning into the wisdom of your own body.

If up until now your food options have been somewhat limited, start experimenting. Go to the bookstore or Amazon and buy a few books that will help you try out some new interesting options.

The path to happiness and health is not paved with deprivation and fear. This is an important point to remember in achieving your dream body and also really any endeavor in life.

What have you learned by tuning into the wisdom of your body more?

 

Sheila Viers is an Emotional Eating Expert, Holistic Life Coach and co-founder of Live ell 360.

 

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Joy

What if we were joyful simply just because? We all know the feeling of our hearts spilling over with joy. Can you imagine feeling this way all the time, or at least believing you could feel this way at any given time?

There have been stretches in my life when I’ve been starkly aware of the absence of joy, where I couldn’t even imagine it. I remember describing it to a girlfriend as just plain missing. We all know how dull and flat this feels. A lot of joy’s absence for me was from wounds from my past that I wasn’t addressing, wounds of not feeling worthwhile.

Because the rays of joy that seem to come more naturally to children were not often shining in my house, I’d learned over the years to have low expectations for them, given my limited exposure. I am not writing this for you to feel sad for me, but more because I think many of you can probably relate, or else I think we would be a great deal happier a lot more of the time.

What is wonderful is that no matter what we’ve been through before now, we can awaken joy today, by actually being with whatever is in our way. It’s only when we push our wounds aside that joy appears lost. Conversely, when we witness our heartbreak, we can actually soften to the possibility of joy suddenly showing up.

This is just it: Joy holds the magical element of surprise. The spontaneous rise of joy in the heart can be as simple as seeing a hummingbird land on a flower. It takes us in such a disarming way! The disarmament of our hardened stances enables happiness to flourish. Joy melts us, or in other words connects us into our elemental goodness.

The other day, I was reading a funny anecdote about the Zen teacher Suzuki Roshi offering a student in pain some jellybeans, and I started laughing and crying in delight. I had a moment of totally spontaneous joy. I felt so at ease in my heart, and this reminded me of what one of my first Zen teachers says about joy: “I think that you can know from your own experience that when you relax and have some easy, happy feeling inside yourself and a good feeling for others, it does feel quite easeful and natural.”

Another thing about joy is how simple it can be. Like mindfulness, joy can be found in eating a pear, or putting on socks. It doesn’t have to be some insanely ecstatic event, some big revolutionary wow. Thich Nhat Hanh talks about the smile, how within the smile is all the joy we need. Or inversely, the joy invokes the smile. He is spot on. The spread of joy across my toddler’s face is synonymous with her smile. How the smile illuminates her! The small but momentous thing fills her entire body, the joy itself transformative.

Joy too is not far away, off in a hidden crevice somewhere, but rather belongs with and lives in us all. As with stillness and peace, there is always the capacity to touch joy, to animate it, in this very moment, in our own imperfect selves. Yet we so often lose sight of joy being contingency-free. Remember, joy does not have to be earned. We certainly don’t have to win something or depend on someone else to feel it. Why not drop our notions of having to work for it at all?

The main thing is to trust in joy, to know that joy is right here, like a free-floating effervescent balloon. Even when obscured by a cloud or caught in a tree, it is still right here. To have that profound trust is both miraculous and also quite ordinary. It is simply joy, no string attached.

Maggie Lyon is a writer on wellness and spirituality, a motivational speaker, and a holistic lifestyle consultant. 

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Recognize Energy Gains and Drains.

Pay attention to your energy level and you’ll notice how often it fluctuates. One day you feel highly energized and the next you’re totally wiped out. Given that you need energy for everything you do, it’s important you learn how to effectively manage your energy so it stays in a healthy balance.

The first step is to learn where the source of your energy. This allows you to actively restore, renew and replenish your reserves. It’s just as critical to identify and address where you lose energy. Chances are, you can already come up with a pretty good list. And when you’re willing to take closer look, you’ll be amazed at just how many opportunities you have to strengthen your energy and wellbeing.

Taking responsibility for your energy requires awareness, insight and practice. Initially, you need to pay close attention to how you experience life. Attention is what creates awareness. Become aware of how your experiences impact your energy. Identify what’s within your control to change and start taking steps to do so.

Here’s a simple process designed to help you see more clearly how your daily experiences are either adding to – or subtracting from – your energy.

  • Keep track of your experiences for one week. Pay attention to what energizes you and what depletes you. Write it down as soon as you are aware of how you’re feeling. Spend 10 minutes each night reviewing the day.
  • Recognize your patterns. At the end of the week, look for connections and insights. Review what’s working and what’s not. Identify the patterns that support you and deplete you.
  • Develop new strategies. Pick one area that’s currently draining your energy. Look at your current response and come up with three new strategies that shift the direction. Be specific about what you will do and when.
  • Invest in your energy every day. Create a list of ideas that will replenish your energy. Put one idea into action every day. Feel your energy build.
  • Reflect and learn. Make it a weekly practice to check in on your energy. Take a quick audit of your experiences and see what surfaces. Identify which strategies work best and lean on those more often.

Get good at living®,

Maryanne

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20 Tips to Curb Sugar Cravings and Kick the Addiction

As a serious sugar addict still struggling with my “addiction” I know first hand how difficult it is to get off sugar, and to stay off it. Part of the reason it’s so hard to kick the habit is that over time our brains actually become addicted to the natural opioids that are triggered by sugar consumption. Much like the classic drugs of abuse such as cocaine, alcohol and nicotine, a diet loaded with sugar can generate excessive reward signals in the brain which can override one’s self-control and lead to addiction.

One study out of France, presented at the 2007 annual meeting of the Society for Neuroscience, showed that when rats (who metabolize sugar much like we do) were given the choice between water sweetened with saccharin and intravenous cocaine, 94 percent chose the saccharin water. When the water was sweetened with sucrose (sugar), the same preference was observed — the rats overwhelmingly chose the sugar water. When the rats were offered larger doses of cocaine, it did not alter their preference for the saccharin or sugar water. Even rats addicted to cocaine, switched to sweetened water when given the choice. In other words, intense sweetness was more rewarding to the brain than cocaine.

The American Psychiatric Association defines addiction to include three stages: bingeing, withdrawal and craving. Until recently, the rats had only met two of the elements of addiction, bingeing and withdrawal. But recent experiments by Princeton University scientist, Professor Bart Hoebel and his team showed craving and relapse as well. By showing that excess sugar led not only to bingeing and withdrawal, but to cravings for sweets as well, the final critical component of addiction fell into place and completed the picture of sugar as a highly addictive substance.

In stark contrast to this clinical assessment is the fact that for most of us, “something sweet” is a symbol of love and nurturance. As infants, our first food is lactose, or milk sugar. Later on, well-intended parents (me included) reward children with sugary snacks, giving them a “treat,” turning a biochemically harmful substance into a comfort food. We become conditioned to need something sweet to feel complete or satisfied and continue to self-medicate with sugar as adults, using it to temporarily boost our mood or energy. But as any addict knows, one quick fix soon leaves you looking for another — each hit of momentary satisfaction comes with a long term price.

The bottom line is that sugar works the addiction and reward pathways in the brain in much the same way as many illegal drugs. And, like other drugs, it can destroy your health and lead to all sorts of ailments including heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, weight gain, and premature aging. Sugar is basically a socially acceptable, legal, recreational drug, with deadly consequences — and like with any drug addiction, you have to have a flexible but structured plan to beat it.

Here are some tips to help you cope with sugar cravings:

Eat Regularly: Eat three meals and two snacks or five small meals a day. For many people, if they don’t eat regularly, their blood sugar levels drop, they feel hungry and are more likely to crave sweet sugary snacks.

Choose Whole Foods: The closer a food is to its original form, the less processed sugar it will contain. Food in its natural form, including fruits and vegetables, usually presents no metabolic problems for a normal body, especially when consumed in variety. (For more information, read “The Whole Thing” in the ExperienceLife archives).

Have A Breakfast Of Protein, Fat And Phytonutrients: Breakfast smoothies are ideal for this. The typical breakfast full of carbs and sugary or starchy foods is the worst option since you’ll have cravings all day. Eating a good breakfast is essential to prevent sugar cravings. (For more information, read “Phyto Power” in the ExperienceLife archives).

Try To Incorporate Protein/Fat Into Each Meal: This helps control blood sugar levels. Make sure they are healthy sources of each.

Add Spices: Coriander, cinnamon, nutmeg, cloves and cardamom will naturally sweeten your foods and reduce cravings.  (For more information, read “5 Healing Spices” in the ExperienceLife archives).

Take A Good Quality Multivitamin And Mineral Supplement, Omega 3 Fatty Acids And Vitamin D3: Nutrient deficiencies can make cravings worse and the fewer nutrient deficiencies, the fewer cravings. Certain nutrients seem to improve blood sugar control including chromium, vitamin B3 and magnesium.

Move Your Body: Exercise, dance or do some yoga. Whatever movement you enjoy will help reduce tension, boost your energy and decrease your need for a sugar lift.

Get Enough Sleep: When we are tired we often use sugar for energy to counteract the exhaustion.

Do A Detox: My experience has been that when people do a detox, not only does it reset their appetites but it often decreases their sugar cravings. After the initial sugar cravings, which can be overwhelming, our bodies adjust and we won’t even want the sugar anymore and the desire will disappear.  (For more information, read “Detox Done Right” in the ExperienceLife archives).

Be Mindful Of Emotions: Be open to explore the emotional issues around your sugar addiction. Many times our craving for sugar is more for an emotional need that isn’t being met.

Keep It Out of Reach: Keep sugary snacks out of your house and office. It’s difficult to snack on things that aren’t there!

Don’t Substitute Artificial Sweeteners For Sugar: This will do little to alter your desire for sweets. If you do need a sweetener, try Stevia, it’s the healthiest.

Learn to Read Labels: Although I would encourage you to eat as few foods as possible that have labels, educate yourself about what you’re putting into your body. The longer the list of ingredients, the more likely sugar is going to be included on that list. So check the grams of sugar, and choose products with the least sugar per serving. For more information, read “How Health People Decode Labels” in the ExperienceLife archives

Look Out for Sugar in Disguise: Remember that most of the “complex” carbohydrates we consume like bread, bagels and pasta aren’t really complex at all. They are usually highly refined and act just like sugars in the body and are to be avoided.

Take L-Glutamine: Take 1000-2000mg every couple of hours as necessary. It often relieves sugar cravings as the brain uses it for fuel.

Take a “Breathing Break:” Find a quiet spot, get comfortable and sit for a few minutes and focus on your breath. After a few minutes of this, the craving will pass.

Distract Yourself: Go for a walk, if possible, in nature. Cravings usually last for 10-20 minutes maximum. If you can distract yourself with something else, it often passes. The more you do this, the easier it gets and the cravings get easier to deal with.

Drink Lots of Water: Sometimes drinking water or seltzer water can help with the sugar cravings. Also sometimes what we perceive as a food craving is really thirst.  (For more information, read “How to Hydrate” in the ExperienceLife archives).

Have a Piece of Fruit: If you give in to your cravings, have a piece of fruit, it should satisfy a sweet craving and is much healthier.

If you follow these guidelines, perhaps you’ll be able to have an occasional “treat.” Be realistic with yourself and remember that a slip is not a failure. Don’t get down on yourself if you slip, just dust yourself off and get back in the saddle. However, if even just a little causes you to lose control, then it’s best to stay away from it completely. And my ultimate tip for sugar-free bliss is to remind ourselves to find and pursue “sweet satisfaction” in nourishing experiences other than food.

Frank Lipman, M.D., is the founder and director of the Eleven Eleven Wellness Center in NYC and the author of “REVIVE; Stop Feeling Spent and Start Living Again” (2009) (previously called SPENT).

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How I Handle Criticism

I recently got an email from a fan with a deep desire to play big in her life and career. There’s only one problem, she’s terrified of the type of criticism she might receive if she really puts herself out there. “Kris, how do you navigate the good, bad and ugly?” What a fantastic question!

First and foremost, I’ve cultivated a sacred relationship with myself. I literally have my own back and am an excellent (self) bodyguard. I also believe in KC, and drum roll … I like me. Sure, meanies can sting, but I can’t be torn down easily. Good reviews, bad reviews, why hold onto either? If you believe you’re the next Jesus, then you’d better believe you’re the devil, too. That’s the roller coaster ride you buy a ticket for when you choose to get caught up in others’ opinions of you. As long as what you’re putting out in the world resonates with you, feels good in your soul’s tummy, and helps folks, that’s all the validation you need. Here’s another test: Would you be proud of what you’re doing 10 years from now? 20 years, etc? If so, charge on!

Over the Crazy Sexy years, I’ve experienced a bloody-wrestling match with criticism. I’m not going to lie, every once in a while I wish my life were simpler and private. But I signed up for more this time around. And more is stunning and complicated. Not everyone is open to my wellness philosophy, irreverent sass, my desire to be a smart businesswoman, and my willingness to stand up for animals, people and the planet. So how can we learn to separate constructive criticism from useless finger-waging whining?  On top of that, how do we build a tougher shell to fight against bullies? It’s simple: 99 percent of the time, the stabbing comment is not about you. It’s about them. The haters will hate because they are hurt and sad and mad. Your shine freaks the holy hell out of them. Capiche?

In these situations, the quicker you shake it off and march forward, the better. Send compassion, love and forgiveness to the person attacking you. Yuck!? Yeah, I know that can be a hard pill to swallow. But boy does it reframe the situation fast. Maybe they’re having a bad day or haven’t quite learned to master the fine art of communication. Whatever the case: Never let their issues bring you down. If you can be honest with yourself, it’s pretty easy to see what information is beneficial and what needs to be tossed. Can’t see things clearly? Ask a trusted friend or colleague. Here’s another way to look at harsh commentary: When you start to get a reaction from the outside world, you know that you’re pushing boundaries and challenging yourself (and others) to grow. So, rock on pioneer!

Safe ways to deal with criticism:

1. Consider the source. Is the commenter a friend or foe? Are they speaking from a place of security and openness or anger and negativity? Even if you don’t know the person, you can usually tell a lot about them from their tone. Often, destructive, snarky criticism is a projection of the insecurity and unresolved issues of the giver. These comments can be the most biting, but also the most unfounded and telling. When you march to your own beat, you’re going to piss people off because it makes them feel uneasy about their place in the world. Thought-provokers are prime targets for being misquoted and manipulated, and you can’t control that – trust me! Take a breath and objectively examine the source before crawling into a hole of self-loathing. Plus, that person is already occupying the hole. Do you really want to hang with them?

2. Practice non-attachment. Whether the response is good or bad, you will benefit from creating distance between yourself and your work. These remarks don’t define you as a person. And remember what I said a hot second ago. You can’t control how folks perceive you. If you really want to dampen your spark, go ahead and try. Seriously, it’s not possible, so just keep your side of the street clean and let go. For example, health is a hot button issue for a whole lotta folks. To keep moving ahead, I have to remind myself that I am not merely the product of my work. I am not an inspirational patient. I am not a trailblazer. I am not a glass of green juice. I am not defined by how the world perceives my work. I am Kris. No more, no less. Sure I have goals. But my work and my life are very different – even though my life is deeply embedded in my work. Make sense? If I allowed myself to be defined by these things, I would’ve stopped years ago. And remember this, just because someone says something about you, it doesn’t mean it’s true. Is one weak voice going to silence you? No way!

3. Pull out the gems. Once in a while, you’ll receive a big honking piece of fabulous feedback. This type of critique is one of the greatest gifts a person can give you. Cherish these nuggets even if they’re difficult to digest. Constructive criticism may make you feel a little uncomfortable, but it shouldn’t hurt your feelings or cut you down. Instead, it can teach you how to better serve and build your business.

A special note about the Internet: Remember that the Internet gives everyone a voice. That’s what’s so great about it. But it also makes it an emotional land mine. People who are in pain have a really easy time venting from a laptop, especially if they never have to meet you in person or be held accountable. Journalists too. No matter how lovely they may seem, they often have their own agendas that do not include your best interest in mind. If you find yourself at a place in your career where you are being interviewed, check out the writer. Does he or she have a respectful, clean tone? How intelligent is the person? Are their values aligned with yours? If not, you can say … no. Opportunities will come and go, you’ll always have them. I promise.

Bottom line: Don’t let the fear of criticism hold you back. Use the good stuff as rocket fuel, the thoughtful advice to hone your message, and throw the junk in the trash where it belongs.

Peace & encouragement,

KC

Kris Carr is a New York Times best-selling author, motivational speaker and wellness coach.

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The 3 Quickest Ways to a Healthier Commute

You’re busy. We get it. With the coming and going daily rush of it all, it can be hard to be conscious of all the healthy choices we could be making. But with the little time you have, we’d all like to make more quick healthy, eco-conscious decisions.

So we’ve put together this guide of The 3 Quickest Ways for a Healthier Commute. It’s ideas for three small changes you can make…all on your way to work! They are also great gifts for the busiest person you know (and they’re all under $30!). They’ll love the fact that you’re making their morning commute a little healthier, greener, and more enjoyable!

 Reusable Coffee Mugs

Benefits:

  • Healthy - Avoids plastic #6, polystyrene, which lines paper cups and disposable caps and is considered a generally unsafe plastic (especially used in combination with heat). BPA-free stainless steel travel mugs are your best bet.
  • Practical -  Several leak-proof options. Plus save some change, as some coffee shops discount 10 cents when you fill up a reusable mug.
  • Green -  With an estimated 23 billion paper coffee cups used by Americans in 2010, a reusable mug is a small way to be more green. Studies show that after 24 uses, a reusable mug breaks even with the environmental impact of manufacturing a paper cup (according to Sustainability is Sexy).
  • Tasty - Keeps your drink hotter way longer!
  • Peace of mind - I can’t get my coffee in a disposable cup anymore without worrying about the lining breaking down and melting into my drink.

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Reusable Water Bottles

Benefits:

  • Healthy - Avoids BPA, an endocrine disruptor with estrogen-like effects. Stainless steel and glass are a safer choice over  BPA-free plastic bottles , the effects of which have not been sufficiently tested.
  • Practical - Save money on buying diposable plastic water bottles.
  • Green - Roughly 1.5 million tons of plastic are expended in the bottling of 89 billion liters of water each year (according to a 2011 report of the World Wide Fund for Nature).
  • Tasty - No strange aftertaste with your water (drinks taste better in glass and stainless steel!)
  • Peace of mind - No more worrying about how long the disposable plastic bottle was exposed to heat on the delivery truck, shipping dock, or in the back room at the store and if that led to the plastic leaching.

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Reusable Lunch Gear

Benefits:

  • Healthy - Completely BPA, phthalate, PVC, lead-free. Made from food-grade stainless steel, cotton, glass, or bamboo (plastics can leach into foods).
  • Practical - Durable. Most are machine washable and leak-proof.
  • Green - Keep as many as 1,000 plastic bags out of the waste stream.
  • Tasty - Keeps colder foods cold, warmer foods warm (especially the vacuum insulated food containers).

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Pick up a few of these picks for your favorite commuter and they can be stylish, healthy and safe!

Which is your favorite?

 

Claire Lew is a contributing author to Mighty Nest. MightyNest was started by Kristen and Chris Conn who realized the impact their purchasing decisions had on their newborn baby.

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Questions of Kindness

We all know the surprise we feel when a stranger acts wonderfully kind for no apparent reason and for nothing in return. We call these acts of kindness random, because we have gotten so out of touch with kindness in our daily lives.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if instead of shocking us, kindness was just plain regular, something we all shared and spread around freely, and that we all took time to celebrate along the way?

 At my son’s school they actually have kindness parties after they’ve accumulated spontaneous kind acts from each child in the class. What’s astonishing is how wonderfully willing and excited the kids get when kindness happens. It sets the room aglow and spills out of the room into the halls.

Can you imagine throwing kindness parties in our adult lives?

Kindness is indeed profound. As Rumi says, “For kindness has the power to transform
.” How true. Especially after a crummy not-so-nice feeling day, when suddenly at bedtime my son interrupts our reading to say, “You are the most spectacular mommy and the best writer ever. I just love you. And I love your beautiful hair, and your eyes.” I mean, wow!

Talk about instant soothing, instant healing. Kindness is just this: Instant and eternal at once.

Do you agree?

Still, I feel like I have to always remind myself of my own capacity for kindness, one that we all clearly have—because we all clearly had it as pure-hearted children. It just gets eclipsed in our unkindly stumbles, especially toward ourselves.

But what if we took each stumble as an opportunity to pledge more kindness?

Can you envision the world with kindness abundant in and around us, where we are really in the habit of being it, doing it, and feeling it A LOT?

I know I’m asking you a bunch of questions this go round. It’s intentional. These are the questions I ask myself all the time. Help me out here.

When we start to ask about kindness, we begin to believe in fostering it more, to the point where it just keeps on blooming, large and immeasurable, like nothing else.

Don’t you think?

Maggie Lyon is a writer on wellness and spirituality, a motivational speaker, and a holistic lifestyle consultant. 

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“Intuitivarian:” The New Eating Style

There are many different eating preferences due to food sensitivities, morals, or other variables. Many people ask me what type of eating style I am or teach. Recently when asked, I blurted out the word “Intuitivarian.”

My definition of “Intuitivarian” is: Someone who fuels their body with the correct balance of nutrition in the present moment. This is ultimate self-trust and a developed skill in self-discovery with your relationship with food.

I enjoy all of the amazing research that is available at our finger tips, however this is challenging and overwhelming for each person to decipher how food effects them on a daily basis. The journey to understanding yourself and how food affects you requires patience and desire.

I am an inspiring sailor. If we chart our course and don’t adjust with the winds and tides correctly, we are heading for disaster. When other nutritionist or diet plans put you on “the perfect diet” and do not empower you with tools to adjust to the natural changes of life, this is a recipe for frustration and exhaustion.

Remember this is a practice and if you sail off course, don’t worry, you get to eat every day and you can try again tomorrow.  Try to let go of your all or none personality and be easy on yourself.  You can NOT get mad at yourself to become healthy, this is completely opposite mindset.

Tips to begin your journey as an “Intuitivarian:”

1. Take 5 deep breaths before you decide what you want to eat;
2. Take an inventory of what you have or haven’t eaten yet;
3. Think of how you want to feel after the meal and journal about how food is making you feel;
4. Review the Conscious Nutrition ”Food Tree” for meal combining ideas (email us for a complimentary “Food Tree” at info@ConsciousNutrition.com);
5. Only enjoy what you are eating and have positive thoughts.

Heather Fleming is the founder of Conscious Nutrition, programs that empower others to live a life of vitality, purpose and energy.

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